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When Was the Last Time?

In recent days, I haven’t been reading newspapers or watching the news… I can say that I gave myself permission not to read newspapers or watch the news. You know the saying, “ignorance is bliss”? That was exactly the mode I was in, that is, the news…

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In recent days, I haven’t been reading newspapers or watching the news… I can say that I gave myself permission not to read newspapers or watch the news. You know the saying, “ignorance is bliss”? That was exactly the mode I was in: ignorant about the news, and happy…

When I think about all the things people do to be happy, this seems like a simple yet effective method.

Besides, this state of mind gave me the chance to experience Cyprus. I started to see the sun setting on the horizon from my balcony… I used to think the birds had forgotten how to sing, but it turns out I hadn’t listened to them in a long time…

I realized that I had been talking about places I’d never visited, repeating things I’d heard secondhand, while saying, “The country I live in actually has so many historical treasures.” But I’ve begun to understand that our historical sites aren’t here merely for us to boast about. With this realization, I started to feel ashamed of myself…

To make it up to myself, I began exploring Cyprus’s historic sites with my five-year-old son… Freeing him from this feeling “in advance” brings me one step closer to forgiving myself…

Now I wonder;

When was the last time I watched the sunset to my heart’s content?

When was the last time I witnessed the birds singing freely?

When was the last time I visited historical sites?

When was the last time …?

I can’t find an answer…

What’s your answer?

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